Confession Time: I’m a guy firstly I don’t believe in having sex with random people, my body count is 2. Okay I had this female workmate
She lost her kid, when the child was months old. I was there for her during that moment, my girlfriend didn’t like it because during the funeral the woman was only calling me and I spent a lot of money as if the child was mine.
My girlfriend asked me to cut ties with that coworker but I didn’t cause she was depressed and almost killed herself. She sent to mental hospital, After she was back from the mental hospital I kept on chilling with her that’s what made my girlfriend leave. We started chilling more like best friends because everyone thought we were dating, we could sleep on 1 bed but no sex was involved.
A certain day we were drinking with friends 1 of the guys called her and started asking her why she don’t want to date me despite that everyone could see that I love her. She told him that I’m too soft on her and weak.
Mind u I own 2 businesses which do provide my daily expenses without touching my salary. I remember that night we drove home after we reached her place I slept in the other room I didn’t feel like spending the night on 1 bed with her.
In the morning I picked up all my stuff and I left. Since then she has been calling, texting and sending messages through other people. I don’t want anything to do with her.
That’s why I knew being Mr Nice guy to this other gender it will not get you anywhere.
I got transferred and we are leaving in a different state.
My question is I’m I wrong to cut her out from my life?”