Space to Heal: There comes a time in life when the silence becomes louder than the noise, and the space between us feels like a comfort rather than a void. It’s in these moments that we begin to distance ourselves, not because we want to be alone, but because we need the solitude to heal, to reflect, and to find our way back to ourselves.
If you’ve ever found yourself pulling away, seeking refuge in your own thoughts, and creating distance from the world, know that it’s okay. It’s okay to feel that you need this space, and it’s okay to embrace the comfort it brings. But let’s not ignore the reasons why we do this—let’s explore them together. (Read More: “Not All That Glitters Is Gold” – Ray Ban Reflects on Disappointing Meal at a Big Hotel in Ijebu
Tell me exactly how you feel. Tell me why the space is comforting, and why it’s become necessary for your well-being. I want to understand the wounds you carry, the scars you’ve hidden away from the world. It’s important for you to know that you don’t have to carry this burden alone. Space to Heal:
Share with me the stories of the people you’ve given too much of yourself to—the ones who’ve left you empty, confused, and searching for answers in the middle of the night. These are the stories that shape us, the experiences that leave marks on our hearts, but they don’t define our worth.
Trust me with your flaws, your fears, and the pieces of yourself that you feel are unworthy of love. I’m here to show you that you are deserving of all the love, kindness, and belonging that the world has to offer. You don’t deserve to be lost in a relentless search for something that might never be real. What you deserve is the peace that comes from within, the knowledge that you are enough, just as you are.
It’s time to let someone else carry the weight for a change. Let someone else put you first, to show you that you don’t have to do this alone. You’ve spent so long taking care of others, it’s time to take care of yourself. You deserve to feel loved, to be surrounded by a kindness so pure that only those with a broken heart can truly understand.
Make today the day that you choose you. Let it start and end with the acknowledgment that you are worthy of love, of healing, and of finding your way back to yourself. Because after everything you’ve been through, you’ve earned it.
