We often meet new people on campus, forming connections and friendships, never imagining that someone who seems harmless could become a threat. This story is a raw, heartbreaking account of a student who faced a nightmare in her own space-a reminder of how quickly trust can turn into betrayal.
It all started when this guy stopped me on campus, introducing himself as my course mate. According to him, he was seeing me for the first time, and it was the same for me. He asked for my contact, and I didn’t make a big deal out of it-after all, I run a small business online.
We started talking, and soon enough, he asked me out. I told him I wasn’t interested and that I didn’t want to date a course mate. Besides, even though he was cute and fair, I told him I preferred dark guys. I thought he would take the hint, but things took a different turn.
On his birthday, he insisted on buying food to celebrate, and he bought for himself too. The food was packed together, so he suggested following me to my house to collect his share. I didn’t think much of it then, but letting him know my place was the biggest mistake of my life.
He started showing up unannounced. He would touch me in ways I didn’t like, forcing kisses on me, and when I told him to stop, he’d put on a show, asking, “Why na?” It was annoying and uncomfortable, and I could tell from his behavior that he was only after one thing.
After this long holiday, he showed up at my place again without warning. I didn’t let him in and asked why he didn’t call or text before coming. He said he was just in the area and wanted to say hi. I gave him a cold attitude, hoping he’d get the message.
The next day, he showed up again, this time late at night around 11 or 12. I wasn’t expecting anyone, so l ignored the knock at first. He texted me to come out, saying his phone was low and there was no light at his place. Reluctantly, I opened my door and let him charge his phone.
I was in my room vibing to my music, but he kept trying to touch me. I pushed him away, telling him to stop and be on his way. “Are we dating?” | asked. He said no. “Do I owe you my body?” Again, he said no. I thought that would make him stop, but it didn’t.
A Violent Betrayal: When ‘No’ is Ignored
Suddenly, he jumped at me, forcing me down and pinning me to the bed. I crossed my legs tightly, trying to keep him out, but he was determined. He was sweating, looking scary and focused, and he kept pushing, trying to force himself on me. My strength was fading, and I couldn’t find my voice to shout. I begged him to stop, calling his name over and over, but he ignored me.
After struggling for what felt like hours, he finally forced my legs apart. I stopped pushing when I felt his body inside me. It was painful, and I hadn’t had sex in months, but I didn’t want him to see me cry.
When it was over, he tried to kiss me. I slapped him and pushed him out, locking the door behind him.
I rushed to the bathroom, checking myself, feeling hurt and violated. I took a shower and cried myself to sleep, replaying the nightmare over and over in my mind.
The Aftermath: Healing and Finding Strength
That night changed everything. He wasn’t just a stranger-he was someone I knew and trusted enough to let into my space. I felt betrayed, angry, and broken. But even in my pain, I knew I couldn’t let this define me.
To anyone reading this, please know that no one has the right to your body. If someone violates you, it is not your fault. Speak out, seek help, and never feel ashamed of your story. You are not alone.
If you’ve experienced something similar, reach out to someone you trust or a support group. Your pain is real, and your voice deserves to be heard. Healing is a journey, and you are stronger than what happened to you.
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